Attract Women Through Authenticity

Only two steps…

“The authentic self is the soul made visible.” — Sarah Ban Breathnach

To attract women through authenticity you’ll need to do two things:

(1) Be your TRUE Self, and

(2) Be your BEST Self.

Here’s how…

“Anxiety is thought without control. Flow is control without thought.” — James Clear

When you’re in the zone, doing something you love, so fully captivated that you lose all sense of time and space, what thoughts go through your mind?

In other words, what do you think about when you’re in a state of complete flow?

Pause for about 30 seconds and allow the answer to arise before moving on.

When you’re in a flow state, doing your best work, there is no thinking.

If you do have thoughts, they just flow right through without you having to think about them.

You can verify this truth by examining your own experience of being in the zone.

So being in the zone can be described as the state of non-thinking.

It may seem counter-intuitive, but we’re at our best when we’re NOT thinking.

Here’s an example:

When professional or Olympic athletes compete, do they think about every single move they make?

Of course not.

The highest performing athletes describe their peak state as being in the zone.

As we just established, the “zone” is a state of non-thinking.

This phenomenon is called “mushin” in Japanese culture.

Mushin is achieved when the mind is free of random thoughts, free of anger, free of fear, and free of ego.

There is an absence of rambling thoughts.

It leaves the practitioner free to act and react without hesitation in accordance with his or her study and training.

Actions are based on training, instinct, and subconscious response rather than thought.

After practice, thinking hinders the performance of athletes and non-athletes alike.

Thinking leads to hesitation, doubt, insecurity, and fear.

In short, we perform our best the moment we enter a state of non-thinking and follow our training.

That said, let’s get back to the aforementioned two steps:

Attracting women through authenticity…

(1) To be your TRUE Self spend more time in a state of non-thinking.

“One who looks around him is intelligent, one who looks within him is wise.” — Matshona Dhliwayo

Increase the importance of being fully aware in the present moment, and decrease the importance of thinking. (Especially when interacting with women!)

Done correctly, practicing awareness will create inner bliss and unconditional happiness.

True happiness comes from within… Not from anyone or anything outside of yourself.

As if unconditional happiness isn’t enough, here are 3 more benefits:

Benefit #1: You will literally radiate confidence, peace, or joy all the time without thought or effort. [1] [2] [3]

Benefit #2: Because of Benefit #1, women will find you more attractive. [4]

Benefit #3: Because of Benefit #2, women will express interest FIRST (eliminating any chance of rejection). [5]

(2) To be your BEST Self get the proper training.

“Truth is a point of view, but authenticity can’t be faked.” — Peter Guber

Master the art of seduction so you know what to say and do without thinking about it.

Once you do, talking to women will be effortless… like talking to your best friend.

You can:

Strike up a conversation with women at any time, in any environment.

Keep the conversation going (so you never run out of interesting things to say).

Flirt, banter, and connect using wit and humor so casual conversations lead to sex.

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References:

[*] Awareness, mindfulness, and meditation are used interchangeably.

[1] Practicing awareness increases confidence:
eocinstitute.org/meditation/meditation-can-make-you-more-social

[2] Peace and joy are two of more than a hundred benefits to meditation:
eocinstitute.org/meditation/141-benefits-of-meditation

[3] Practicing mindfulness increases positive emotions:
ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6296247

[4] Women find mindful men attractive:
psychologytoday.com/us/blog/meet-catch-and-keep/201510/the-hidden-trait-predicts-who-we-find-attractive

[5] We are drawn to people who make us feel happy and positive emotions promote romantic attraction:
psychologytoday.com/us/blog/why-bad-looks-good/201907/partners-most-attractive-non-physical-trait

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