Dating Advice For Men: First Date Sex (2 of 2)

This is part 2 of 2 on how to have an incredible first date. In part 1 we talked about first date tips, what to do on a first date, and what to talk about on a first date.

Now we’re going to take things up a notch and talk about first date sex.

Specifically, how to sleep with her on the first date while other men have to wait MONTHS. Which guy would YOU like to be?

Implement the proven strategies below and you can decide…

The Bounce Back

If you’re not already at your place, during the date talk about something she’ll need to come to your place to see or experience.

As part of your Date Plan, execute a planned location change then say:

– My place is on the way. Let’s stop by to X.

X = something you mentioned earlier that is at your house. It could be to see your view, charge your phone, have a drink, see your art or wine collection, whatever’s clever.

Add a time constraint to make her more comfortable. Here’s an example:

– You can come over to see ___ but you can’t stay long. I have to ___ .

– You can come over for a minute to see my art collection, but you can’t stay long. I have to meet some friends later.

The Stage

You’ll need to “stage” your place before having a girl over.

First… lighting. Make sure the place is well lit.

Leave lights on and/or curtains open to eliminate ANY chance of her needing to walk into darkness.

• Stock up on food and drinks.
• Have toiletry items in the bathroom.
• Make sure your place is clean and smells nice.
• The bed should be made with clean sheets.
• Make sure the place feels warm and inviting.
• Be sure to have plenty of condoms.

Have books about relationships, sex, and romance in plain sight. And don’t forget…

“How to Live with a Huge Penis” by Richard Jacob.

This book is a must-have for the coffee table. You can get it on amazon.

Last but not least… Seduction

When you get to your place, give her a tour, and show her whatever she came to see.

Because of the books on display, the conversation will inevitably turn to sex.

From there, show her how to do Tantra.

Tantra is like having sex spiritually and emotionally, not physically… extremely powerful.

During tantra, sex happens naturally… The physical kind.

By the way, sexual experiences should be mutually gratifying — physically, emotionally, and spiritually. If she resists or just isn’t into it — STOP. If there is any doubt at all — STOP.

Bottom line, no means NO.

Congratulations! You know how to sleep with her on the first date. If you have questions, please feel free to reach out. I’m happy to help.